{"id":133,"date":"2020-09-29T14:40:28","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T14:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/?p=133"},"modified":"2021-09-23T15:06:17","modified_gmt":"2021-09-23T15:06:17","slug":"%e4%bd%a0%e8%bf%98%e5%9c%a8%e8%bd%a8%e9%81%93%e4%b8%8a%e5%90%97-%e6%b5%85%e8%b0%88%e7%b2%be%e7%a5%9e%e5%a4%96%e9%81%87%e7%9a%84%e9%a2%84%e9%98%b2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/?p=133","title":{"rendered":"\u4f60\u8fd8\u5728\u8f68\u9053\u4e0a\u5417? &#8211; \u6d45\u8c08\u7cbe\u795e\u5916\u9047\u7684\u9884\u9632"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-small-font-size\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@priscilladupreez?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Priscilla Du Preez<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u5417? \u8fc7\u53bb\u6211\u4eec\u6216\u8bb8\u4f1a\u8ba4\u4e3a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5e94\u8be5\u4e0d\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u76f8\u4fe1\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\uff0c\u7ed3\u5a5a\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u5c31\u9884\u5907\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u7684\u72b6\u51b5\u3002\u9664\u975e\u90a3\u4e2a\u4eba\u672c\u8eab\u5c31\u6301\u6709\u4e0d\u826f\u7684\u52a8\u673a\u3002\u90a3\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u5462\uff0c\u5230\u5e95\u8fd9\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u9884\u9632?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u5916\u9047\u6709\u5169\u7a2e\uff0c\u4e00\u7a2e\u662f\u7cbe\u795e\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u4e00\u7a2e\u662f\u8089\u9ad4\u4e0a\u7684\u5916\u9047\u3002\u7cbe\u795e\u5916\u9047\u662f\u60f3\u6cd5\u4e0a\u7684\u7121\u9650\u5ef6\u4f38\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5be6\u969b\u4e0a\u4e26\u672a\u63a1\u53d6\u4efb\u4f55\u8209\u52d5\u3002\u82e5\u6b64\u8209\u4ece\u6cd5\u5f8b\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u662f\u4e0d\u8db3\u4e8e\u69cb\u6210\u72af\u7f6a\u7684\u3002\u8089\u9ad4\u4e0a\u7684\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u662f\u6307\u767c\u751f\u6027\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u5c0d\u5df2\u5a5a\u7684\u4eba\u53ef\u69cb\u6210\u5211\u6cd5\u4e0a\u7684\u901a\u59e6\u7f6a\uff0c\u6b64\u8209\u53ef\u5224\u5211\u3002\u800c\u5e38\u5e38\u5916\u9047\u662f\u5728\u7cbe\u795e\u548c\u8089\u9ad4\u4e0a\u540c\u6642\u90fd\u767c\u751f\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u60c5\u611f\u5916\u9047\u6216\u7cbe\u795e\u5916\u9047 (Emotional Affairs) \u7684\u540c\u4e49\u8bcd\u4e3a \u201c\u5916\u9047\u201d\uff0c\u201c\u4e0d\u5fe0\u201d\uff0c\u201c\u5978\u6deb\u201d\u548c \u201c\u80cc\u4fe1\u201d\u3002\u7ef4\u57fa\u767e\u79d1\u628a\u60c5\u611f\u5916\u9047\u5b9a\u4e49\u4e3a \u201c\u4e00\u573a\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u4e0d\u5305\u62ec\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0a\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u63a5\u89e6\uff0c\u4f46\u5305\u542b\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u3002\u201d \u4eba\u4eec\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eec\u914d\u5076\u4e4b\u5916\u7684\u67d0\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u4f1a\u5f71\u54cd\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5ea6\u3001\u60c5\u611f\u8ddd\u79bb\u548c\u603b\u4f53\u52a8\u6001\u5e73\u8861\u3002\u6309\u7167\u8fd9\u79cd\u89c2\u70b9\uff0c\u5f71\u54cd\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u56e0\u7d20\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\u6027\u6216\u8005\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0a\u7684\u63a5\u89e6\u3002\u300a\u4eca\u65e5\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u300b\u6742\u5fd7\u8fd9\u6837\u5b9a\u4e49\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u7684\u4e0d\u5fe0\u6307\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u65b9\u53c2\u4e0e\u4e00\u79cd\u57f9\u80b2\u4e0e\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u60c5\u611f\u4eb2\u5bc6\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u76d6\u5c14\u00b7\u8428\u5c14\u5bdf (Gail Saltz) \u535a\u58eb\u5728\u300a\u4eca\u65e5\u79c0\u300b\u8282\u76ee\u4e2d\u89e3\u91ca\u5982\u4e0b\uff1a\u201c\u5728\u60c5\u611f\u5916\u9047\u4e2d\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u79cd\u4e0d\u5e26\u8eab\u4f53\u63a5\u89e6\u7684\u6df1\u523b\u8054\u7cfb\uff0c\u4f46\u5176\u5371\u5bb3\u4e0e\u6709\u5173\u8eab\u4f53\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e00\u6837\u4e25\u91cd\u3002\u4e0d\u662f\u6240\u6709\u5916\u9047\u90fd\u548c\u6027\u6709\u5173\uff0c\u5916\u9047\u5c31\u662f\u5916\u9047\u3002\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u300a\u4eca\u65e5\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u300b\u7684\u845b\u83b1\u4e1d (Shirley Glass) \u535a\u58eb\u8bf4\uff1a\u201c\u4e0d\u5fe0\u662f\uff0c\u4f60\u628a\u672c\u5e94\u8be5\u5c5e\u4e8e\u6211\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\u7ed9\u4e86\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u8fd9\u79cd\u4e1c\u897f\u662f\u6027\u6216\u8005\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u3002\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u7531\u4ee5\u4e0a\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u5b9a\u4e49\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u7cbe\u795e\u5916\u9047\u6240\u6307\u7684\u53ef\u4ee5\u662f\u4eba\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u662f\u4eba\u4ee5\u5916\u7684\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u60c5\u6216\u7269\u4ef6\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u7f51\u7edc\uff0c\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4e2a\u4eba\u55dc\u597d\u7b49\u7b49\u3002\u4efb\u4f55\u9700\u8981\u4e2a\u4eba\u82b1\u5927\u90e8\u5206\u65f6\u95f4\u548c\u4e13\u6ce8\u529b\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u67d0\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u7684\u4f18\u5148\u6b21\u5e8f\u80dc\u8fc7\u914d\u5076\uff0c \u4ee5\u81f3\u4e8e\u5f71\u54cd\u5230\u548c\u914d\u5076\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\uff0c\u5e76\u76f4\u63a5\u6216\u95f4\u63a5\u5f71\u54cd\u4e24\u4eba\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u72b6\u51b5\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u4f1a\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u8ff9\u8c61\u5417?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u53ef\u4ee5\u89c2\u5bdf\u5230\u4e00\u4e9b\u8ff9\u8c61\uff0c\u6765\u907f\u514d\u6216\u89e3\u51b3\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u7684\u4e0d\u5fe0\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022  \u4f60\u89c9\u5f97\u4f60\u7684\u914d\u5076\u6ca1\u6709\u6ee1\u8db3\u4f60\u60f3\u5f97\u5230\u6ce8\u610f\u3001\u80af\u5b9a\u6216\u559c\u7231\u7684\u9700\u6c42\uff0c\u4e8e\u662f\u4f60\u5f00\u59cb\u5728\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u6216\u7528\u5176\u4ed6\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u6765\u6ee1\u8db3\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022  \u4f60\u53d1\u73b0\u4f60\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u914d\u5076\u4e4b\u5916\u7684\u67d0\u4e2a\u4eba\u66f4\u5bb9\u6613\u655e\u5f00\u5fc3\u6249&#8211;\u5206\u4eab\u4f60\u7684\u4e00\u5929\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u7b49\u7b49\u3002\u30fb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022  \u4f60\u548c\u522b\u4eba\u8c08\u8bba\u4f60\u548c\u4f60\u914d\u5076\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u8fd9\u91cc\u7684 \u201c\u522b\u4eba\u201d \u5305\u62ec\u4e3b\u91cc\u7684\u5f1f\u5144\u59d0\u59b9\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022  \u6bd4\u8d77\u4f60\u7684\u914d\u5076\uff0c\u4f60\u66f4\u671f\u5f85\u548c\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u5f85\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u6216\u82b1\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u4e0a\u7f51\uff0c\u5de5\u4f5c\u7b49\u7b49\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2022  \u4f60\u5411\u4f60\u7684\u914d\u5076\u9690\u85cf\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e4b\u5916\u7684\u53cb\u8c0a\u6216\u5c06\u5176\u6de1\u5316\uff0c\u5bf9\u914d\u5076\u9690\u7792\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u884c\u52a8\uff0c\u55dc\u597d\u7b49\u7b49\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u9884\u9632?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u5bf9\u4e8e\u5a5a\u59fb\uff0c\u5723\u7ecf\u4e00\u5f00\u59cb\u5c31\u6709\u5f88\u6e05\u695a\u7684\u6559\u5bfc\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u5f53\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u7ed3\u5408\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u5408\u4e3a\u4e00\u4f53\u3002 \uff08\u521b\u4e16\u7eaa1\uff1a22\uff09\u5408\u4e3a\u4e00\u4f53\u6307\u7684\u662f\u8eab\u4f53\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u548c\u5fc3\u7075\u7684\u5408\u4e00\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u8fdb\u5165\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u5c31\u5fc5\u987b\u6709\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u9884\u5907\uff0c\u8fc7\u53bb\u6216\u8bb8\u4f60\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u6210\u957f\u80cc\u666f\uff0c\u6709\u597d\u7684\uff0c\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u7ecf\u5386\uff0c\u5f53\u6765\u5230\u5a5a\u59fb\u91cc\u9762\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u5b66\u4e60\u653e\u4e0b\uff0c\u5728\u5a5a\u59fb\u91cc\u548c\u914d\u5076\u5efa\u7acb\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u540c\u610f\u7684\u5171\u8bc6\u3002\u8fd9\u4e2a\u5305\u62ec\u5bf9\u795e\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\uff0c\u5bf9\u914d\u5076\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\uff0c\u548c\u5bf9\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u4f60\u613f\u610f\u7834\u9664\u4e00\u5207\u7684\u969c\u788d\uff0c\u6765\u7ef4\u6301\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u505a\u7684\u627f\u8bfa\u3002\u8fd9\u5305\u62ec\u4f60\u5bf9\u795e\uff0c\u5bf9\u914d\u5076\u548c\u5bf9\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\u3002\u5f53\u7136\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u6653\u5f97\uff0c\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5728\u8fdb\u5165\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u6bbf\u5802\u65f6\uff0c\u5927\u90e8\u5206\u90fd\u6709\u5728\u795e\u9762\u524d\u7acb\u4e0b\u8a93\u8a00\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u662f\u9009\u62e9\u80cc\u4fe1\u7684\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u8fd9\u91cc\u6240\u6307\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\uff0c\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u8a00\u8bed\u4e0a\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\uff0c\u4e5f\u5305\u62ec\u884c\u52a8\u4e0a\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\u3002\u884c\u52a8\u4e0a\u7684\u59d4\u8eab\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u548c\u914d\u5076\u4e00\u8d77\u4e3a\u5a5a\u59fb\u5173\u7cfb\u8bbe\u7acb\u754c\u9650\uff0c\u8fbe\u6210\u5171\u8bc6\u3002\u4efb\u4f55\u7834\u574f\u5a5a\u59fb\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u601d\u60f3\u6216\u884c\u4e3a\uff0c\u90fd\u5f97\u4e3a\u4e86\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u7f18\u6545\u9009\u62e9\u653e\u4e0b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6211\u542c\u8fc7\u6240\u63a5\u89e6\u7684\u4e2a\u6848\uff0c\u867d\u7136\u5df2\u7ecf\u8fdb\u5165\u5a5a\u59fb\uff0c\u4ecd\u7136\u575a\u6301\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u81ea\u7531\u4ee5\u53ca\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u8ba4\u4e3a\u7ed3\u5a5a\u540e\u4ecd\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u4fdd\u6301\u81ea\u7531\u8eab\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u7231\u5e72\u4ec0\u4e48\u5c31\u5e72\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u914d\u5076\u5e94\u8be5\u8981\u5c0a\u91cd\u8fd9\u6837\u7684 \u201c\u6743\u529b\u201d\u3002\u7531\u4e8e\u575a\u6301\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4f3c\u662f\u800c\u975e\u7684\u6001\u5ea6\uff0c\u5c31\u5bf9\u5a5a\u59fb\u4ee5\u5916\u7684\u4eba\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u7684\u754c\u9650\u53ef\u8a00\u3002\u5728\u6211\u7684\u8c08\u8bdd\u5bf9\u8c61\u5f53\u4e2d\uff0c\u5c31\u6709\u59bb\u5b50\u544a\u8bc9\u6211\uff0c\u4e08\u592b\u5e38\u5e38\u5728\u5916\u5934\u548c\u5973\u4eba\u6709\u5f88\u66a7\u6627\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u5f53\u59bb\u5b50\u95ee\u8d77\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u5c31\u8bf4\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5e72\u59b9\u59b9\uff0c\u66f4\u8b66\u544a\u59bb\u5b50\u4e0d\u8981\u591a\u4e8b\uff0c\u5426\u5219\u5c31\u771f\u7684\u548c\u5bf9\u65b9\u641e\u4e0a\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u6765\u6ee1\u8db3\u59bb\u5b50\u7684\u597d\u5947\u5fc3\u3002\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u884c\u4e8b\u4e3a\u4eba\u662f\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0e\u524d\u9762\u6240\u63d0\u5230\uff0c\u8981\u5efa\u7acb\u5408\u4e00\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u771f\u7406\u662f\u76f8\u8fdd\u80cc\u7684\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u8fdb\u5165\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u5c31\u8981\u4e3b\u52a8\u5730\u653e\u4e0b\u8fc7\u53bb\u6211\u884c\u6211\u7d20\u7684\u505a\u6cd5\uff0c\u4e16\u4e0a\u7684\u6b6a\u7406\uff0c\u4e3a\u4e86\u914d\u5076\u7684\u7f18\u6545\uff0c\u7a7f\u4e0a\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u771f\u7406\uff0c\u4ee5\u6069\u6148\u548c\u5723\u6d01\u6765\u5f7c\u6b64\u6b3e\u5f85\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u4ee5\u5f17\u6240\u4e664\uff1a21-24 \u8bf4\uff1a&nbsp;\u201d\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4eec\u542c\u8fc7\u4ed6\u7684\u9053\uff0c\u9886\u4e86\u4ed6\u7684\u6559\uff0c\u5b66\u4e86\u4ed6\u7684\u771f\u7406\uff0c&nbsp;\u5c31\u8981\u8131\u53bb\u4f60\u4eec\u4ece\u524d\u884c\u4e3a\u4e0a\u7684\u65e7\u4eba\uff0c\u8fd9\u65e7\u4eba\u662f\u56e0\u79c1\u6b32\u7684\u8ff7\u60d1\u6e10\u6e10\u53d8\u574f\u7684\uff1b&nbsp;\u53c8\u8981\u5c06\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5fc3\u5fd7\u6539\u6362\u4e00\u65b0\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u7a7f\u4e0a\u65b0\u4eba\uff1b\u8fd9\u65b0\u4eba\u662f\u7167\u7740\u3000\u795e\u7684\u5f62\u8c61\u9020\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u771f\u7406\u7684\u4ec1\u4e49\u548c\u5723\u6d01\u3002\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u5206\u8fa8\u8c0e\u8a00\uff0c\u9009\u62e9\u771f\u7406<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u7ecf\u5386\u548c\u6240\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u6559\u80b2\uff0c\u6709\u8bb8\u591a\u662f\u53ef\u53d6\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u5f88\u591a\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u626d\u66f2\u7684\u601d\u60f3\u6216\u8c0e\u8a00\uff0c\u4e00\u4e9b\u5e38\u89c1\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u8c0e\u8a00\u662f \uff1a{\u6211\u9700\u8981\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7a7a\u95f4\uff0c\u6211\u8981\u66f4\u7231\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u8ffd\u6c42\u81ea\u6211\u5b9e\u73b0\uff0c\u4e0d\u5e94\u53ea\u4e3a\u5bb6\u5ead\u727a\u7272}\uff0c{\u6709\u5f02\u6027\u77e5\u5df1\uff0c\u4e0e\u5f02\u6027\u8c08\u5fc3\u662f\u6ca1\u95ee\u9898\u7684}\uff0c {\u7236\u6bcd\u4e0d\u53ef\u4ee5\u6362\uff0c\u914d\u5076\u53ef\u4ee5\u6362} \u7b49\u7b49\uff1b\u4ee5\u4e0a\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8a00\u8bba\uff0c\u542c\u8d77\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u5927\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u8eab\u4e3a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u4ece\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u6765\u5206\u8fa8\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u6709\u8d23\u4efb\u6539\u53d8\u8fd9\u79cd\u7684\u601d\u7ef4\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u91c7\u53d6\u8ba9\u5723\u7075\u5e2e\u52a9\u6211\u4eec\u9009\u62e9\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u884c\u52a8\u548c\u56de\u5e94\u3002\u5f53\u77e5\u9053\u67d0\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u662f\u4f1a\u7834\u574f\u592b\u59bb\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u6c9f\u901a\u548c\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u867d\u7136\u81ea\u5df1\u62e5\u6709\u6743\u529b\u53bb\u505a\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5374\u4e3a\u4e86\u5408\u4e00\u7684\u7f18\u6545\uff0c\u5219\u9009\u62e9\u4e0d\u505a\uff0c \u53cd\u4e4b\u8981\u523b\u610f\u5730\uff0c\u4ee5\u79ef\u6781\u7684\u6001\u5ea6\u505a\u5bf9\u7684\u9009\u62e9, \u4ee5\u5bb6\u5ead\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e3a\u4f18\u5148\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u8fd9\u4e2a\u8ddf\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4e0e\u795e\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u662f\u7c7b\u4f3c\u7684\u3002 \u7ea6\u7ff0\u4e00\u4e662\uff1a15\uff1a \u201c\u4e0d\u8981\u7231\u4e16\u754c\u548c\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\u7684\u4e8b\u3002\u4eba\u82e5\u7231\u4e16\u754c\uff0c\u7231\u7236\u7684\u5fc3\u5c31\u4e0d\u5728\u4ed6\u91cc\u9762\u4e86\u3002\u201d \u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u8981\u8ddf\u57fa\u7763\u5efa\u7acb\u4eb2\u5bc6\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u8981<strong>\u9009\u62e9<\/strong>\u5206\u522b\u4e3a\u5723\uff0c \u8981\u5efa\u7acb\u7eaa\u5f8b\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\uff0c\u4ee5\u9884\u9632\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u7231\u4e16\u754c\u591a\u8fc7\u7231\u4e3b\u3002\u540c\u6837\uff0c\u5728\u7acb\u4e0b\u5a5a\u7ea6\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u914d\u5076\u5c31\u6210\u4e3a\u4e86\u5a5a\u59fb\u751f\u6d3b\u5f53\u4e2d\u7684\u4f18\u5148\u3002 \u5982\u679c\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u6309\u7167\u5723\u7ecf\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u5efa\u7acb\u5bb6\u5ead\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6211\u4eec\u8981\u9884\u9632\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u6211\u4eec\u5c31\u5f97<strong>\u9009\u62e9<\/strong>\u5728\u5bb6\u5c45\u751f\u6d3b\u5efa\u7acb\u5171\u8bc6\uff0c\u8bbe\u7acb\u754c\u9650\uff0c\u4ee5\u9884\u9632\u81ea\u5df1\u7231\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\uff0c\u4e8b\u6216\u7269\u80dc\u8fc7\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002\uff08\u8fd9\u6216\u8bb8\u5305\u62ec \u7535\u8111\uff0c\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7231\u597d\uff0c\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6743\u529b\u7b49\u7b49\uff09\u3002\u5982\u679c\u8fc7\u53bb\uff0c \u4f60\u8ba4\u4e3a\u7537\u5973\u5355\u72ec\u76f8\u5904\u662f\u6ca1\u6709\u95ee\u9898\u7684\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4e3a\u4e86\u4fdd\u62a4\u5bb6\u5ead\uff0c\u9884\u9632\u5916\u9047\u6216\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u5165\u4fb5\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u7684\u653e\u4e0b\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u6743\u529b\uff0c\u6216\u81ea\u6211\u610f\u8bc6\uff0c\u8bbe\u7acb\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u754c\u9650, \u907f\u514d\u5355\u72ec\u548c\u5f02\u6027\u76f8\u5904\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u56e0\u4e3a\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e0a\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0d\u80fd\u907f\u514d\uff0c\u4e5f\u8981\u5766\u8bda\u5730\u544a\u77e5\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002\u5982\u679c\u8981\u9884\u9632\u81ea\u5df1\u82b1\u592a\u591a\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u5728\u7535\u8111\uff0c\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u53cc\u65b9\u5c31\u8981\u4e3a\u8fd9\u65b9\u9762\u8bbe\u7acb\u754c\u9650\u548c\u5171\u8bc6\u3002 \u5e76\u4e14\u7ed9\u5bf9\u65b9\u6743\u529b\u548c\u81ea\u7531\u6765\u63d0\u9192\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u4ee5\u4e0a\u7684\u8d44\u8baf\u4e0d\u80fd\u53ea\u662f\u505c\u7559\u5728\u7406\u8bba\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u8981\u6211\u4eec<strong>\u9009\u62e9<\/strong>\u505a\u51fa\u51b3\u5b9a\uff0c\u4ed8\u8bf8\u4e8e\u884c\u52a8\uff0c\u8bbe\u5b9a\u5171\u8bc6\u548c\u5171\u540c\u7684\u76ee\u6807\uff0c\u4e00\u8d77\u53bb\u5b88\u62a4\u7684\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u6211\u4eec\u624d\u80fd\u591f\u9884\u9632\u5916\u9047\u7684\u53d1\u751f\u3002\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u9884\u9632\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u7b49\u5230\u4e8b\u60c5\u53d1\u751f\u4e86\uff0c\u624d\u6765\u5bfb\u627e&nbsp; \u201c\u901f\u6218\u901f\u51b3\u201c \u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002\u5b58\u5728\u4e8c\u5341\u4e00\u4e16\u7eaa\u7684\u5feb\u901f\u5e74\u4ee3\uff0c\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u5728\u627e\u4e00\u4e9b\u901f\u6218\u901f\u51b3\u7684\u65b9\u6848\uff0c\u6765\u5bf9\u4ed8\u5b69\u5b50\uff0c\u5bf9\u4ed8\u914d\u5076\uff0c\u5bf9\u4ed8\u5a5a\u59fb\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5230\u5934\u6765\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u5fc5\u987b\u627f\u8ba4\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e8b\u5b9e\uff0c\u5173\u7cfb\u8fd9\u56de\u4e8b\uff0c\u662f\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55&nbsp; \u201d\u7279\u6548\u836f\u201c \u7684\u3002\u8981\u9884\u9632\u5916\u9047\u7684\u53d1\u751f\uff0c \u8ffd\u6839\u7a76\u5e95\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u5728\u4e8b\u60c5\u8fd8\u6ca1\u6709\u53d1\u751f\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u5c31\u89c4\u5f8b\u6027\u5730\u5efa\u7acb\u4e00\u4e9b\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u7eaa\u5f8b\uff0c\u4e3b\u52a8\u8425\u9020\u4e00\u4e9b\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u4e60\u60ef\u6765\u7ef4\u62a4\u592b\u59bb\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u90fd\u662f\u9700\u8981\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u7684 \u201c\u7279\u6548\u836f\u201d\u3002<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u5417? \u8fc7\u53bb\u6211\u4eec\u6216\u8bb8\u4f1a\u8ba4\u4e3a\u57fa\u7763\u5f92\u5e94\u8be5\u4e0d\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u76f8\u4fe1\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\uff0c\u7ed3\u5a5a\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u5c31\u9884\u5907\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u7684\u72b6\u51b5\u3002\u9664\u975e\u90a3\u4e2a\u4eba\u672c\u8eab\u5c31\u6301\u6709\u4e0d\u826f\u7684\u52a8\u673a\u3002\u90a3\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4f1a\u6709\u5916\u9047\u5462\uff0c\u5230\u5e95\u8fd9\u4ef6\u4e8b\u60c5\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u9884\u9632?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":236,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[16,17,11],"class_list":["post-133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-4","tag-16","tag-17","tag-11"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=133"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":153,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133\/revisions\/153"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crossroadconnection-marketplace.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}